Thursday, August 26, 2010

Movin' and Shakin'

Our little Finny isn't so little any more. At his one year check-up, he was 32 inches tall - in the 90th% for his height (up from 25% - unbelievable). His weight was in the 40th% and his head was 95th% (oh yeah, I always knew he had a big ol' noggin!) He's had quite the summer, doing all kinds of new activities. Here's a snapshot of some of his summer activities and acquired skills.

He has figured out how to open all kinds of things. He loves getting the lids off of things he can eat.


And he's developed quite the sweet tooth. Here he is with a classic strawberry milkshake mustache - I think he would be a good candidate for the "Got Milk?" commercials.


Our little buckaroo has also been to TWO rodeos this summer. Most recently, we went to the Caldwell Night Rodeo with our friend Anna. Here's Finny in his cowboy boots and jeans, enjoying the action.


He loved people watching


There was quite a crowd there - Fin couldn't decide between people-watching and watching the events




He was a happy camper for the entire rodeo

He would clap to the music and cheer when everyone else was cheering


This is the only shot I got of the events - here are the cowboys headed down the arena for team calf roping


Fin also switched to his big boy foward-facing car seat! He LOVES being able to see out the windows and I love being able to check on him in the rearview mirror.


Finny also took his first trip to the zoo. Zoo Boise is a nice little zoo; it was sweltering hot the day we went, but we still had fun.


We saw lots of animals - some of them Fin wasn't too sure about - check out his apprehensive face here....cute.


The tigers were out, which was neat


And this was a giant tortoise that I thought was a statue - nope, he moved.


They had a little petting zoo - here were some hungry goats


Fin was terrified and clung to my hip the whole time


Getting braver...


Now he's at least waving at them


Ah, his favorite part of any day...SNACK TIME


Then it was off to see the giraffes - we got pretty good views of them




Fin liked the fact that they were pretty far away




He was so exhausted that he conked out immediately on the car ride home


And when we got him home and into bed, this is how we found him when we went to check on him. Tired little bug!


Fin's also got the art of walking down. At first, he only walked well with a musical walking machine that our friends Rick, Lorena and Hannah got him for his 1st B-day - he got exceptionally good at walking with it, dancing at the same time, and navigating corners. Here's a little video.

Then he wanted to walk on his own. At first, it was a very awkward walk with his hands held straight up in the air. Dru called him "Franken-Fin" because it looked so much like Frankenstein. Here's a video of that.
Then he got to a point where he could walk and drink from his cup at the same time.


Then things got really impressive - he has a plastic recorder that he's figured out how to play, and here he's playing it AND walking at the same time. Boo-ya!


And now, he's running. Here's a very cute video of him playing with Dru - he loves to be chased and Dru is happy to oblige.

Tuesday, August 3, 2010

Lois Jean Smedshammer

Dru's mom, Lois Smedshammer, passed away last week, June 26th, after a severe battle with Parkinson's Disease. By all accounts, she was a funny, generous, witty, kind, talented woman. I had the privelage of meeting her 2 years ago; at the time her disease had already progressed, but she had a few good moments with me - she told me she was so glad Dru had met and married me and how much her sons meant to her. She also made me laugh with her mischeviousness and her love of ice cream. Fortunately, Dru had flown out to North Dakota for a visit 3 weeks before she passed away - a blessed time for him.

Our whole family was able to fly to North Dakota for the funeral. All 3 of Dru's brothers and their families were able to be there as well, which was wonderful. The first day there, we all met for lunch and then spent the afternoon looking through pictures and sharing memories.

At lunch - from bottom L to R - Bucky, Matthew, Rose, Fin, Isaac, Jacob


And the other table. From L to R - Darris, Mars, Kerry, Dru


Auntie Rose and Fin - the first time he got to meet her!


The four brothers - Darris and Kerry in back, Bucky and Dru in front


And the four grandsons - Fin, Jacob, Matthew, and Isaac


The service itself was lovely. Dru grew up attending a small Lutheran church, and one of the pastors who had influenced Dru quite powerfully as a young man, Dan Faust, performed the service. Afterward, the church had a very nice lunch during which I got to meet several of Dru's old high school buddies. Then, there was a nice graveside service, during which Lois was buried next to her late husband, Burton. Dru said she always looked forward to the day she would be reunited with her husband. Both Lois and Burton are with the Lord now, which we are so grateful for.

The four brothers at the graveside


Our family


Us with Dan Faust, the pastor who performed the services


We stayed with Dru's Aunt Sharon and Uncle Harlan, an absolutely delightful, generous couple who have opened thier home and hearts to us. We asked them if they would step in as Fin and the new baby's surrogate paternal grandparents, as both Lois and Burton are gone. They were happy to do so.
Fin with "grandpa" Harlan and "grandma" Sharon

Playing with grandpa on their front lawn


Grandma feeding our little bird ice cream...yum!


More!


In this video, grandma Sharon is still feeding Fin ice cream. His reactions are priceless.


And, Fin took his first steps while in North Dakota!!! On our last night at Sharon and Harlan's, he was entertaining us with his shenanigans - he was dancing and taking some steps. In this video, you can see him do both!